13th Issue @ Geisha Today "Negociator-2"

After the 11th issue, I received many e-mails like these.
"Why does she have to ask her has to clean? I'm sure she's old enough to do that herself."
"I'm a type of girl who can't ask my guy anything. I'm too capable to handle things myself."

Obviously, there're girls who are not requesting their guys to do something.
So let's see how guys react when they are asked to do something.
Girls, you won't feel shy asking things after reading this!!

- Guys' reaction toward requests -
I need Sayoko-the-Negociator with me again.

Sayoko："Daring, can you go buy us breads and milk for tomorrow morning?"
Kenji："Well, I'm a little tired today…"
But our Sayoko won't give up easily.

Sayoko："You know, it's a bit dangerous for girls to walk by ourselves at night.
And of course you can buy anything you like if you go!!"
She remains cheerful.

Kenji："OK. I guess there's no choise."
Sayoko："Daring, that's so sweet!! Thank you!!"
So poor Kenji ended up going out.

- Annoying? -
Kenji seemes reluctant at the beginning, saying he was tired.
But Sayoko doesn't give up.
Some of you girls might think she's annoying Kenji. But NO!!!

Kenji said "well…"
He's taking his time thinking.
Saying "yes" immediately will leave no choise, and he needed to think.

If guys say "well…" or "you know", that means they 're thinking.
They aren't reluctant as you think.
They just need some time to think.

So don't give up when they say "well…" Keep asking.
Otherwise, you'll miss a good opportunity.

- During the shopping -
What does Kenji think during the shopping?
This is really important to understand guys' mentality.

He thinks, "How nice am I to make my wife's request true!!"
He forgets he reacted reluctantly at the beginning.
Guys try to justfy their decisions.
Once they decided to make the requests come true,
they act like it was their choice from the beginning.

- Finishing -
It's really important to say "thank you" when guys accept your requests.
This will give them the motivation for your next request.

Sayoko said "thank you" right away when Kenji decided to go shopping.
Moreover, she says, "Thank you, daring. I", so happy that you're such a caring has!!"
This satisfies Kenji a lot and eager to listen to next requests.

So girls, never forget to say "thank you" when they accept your requests!!

Sayoko-the-Negociator is one step a head.
She told Kenji that he was a wonderful has. This is really great.
Compliment after "thank you" works double.
You might wanna say things like, "you're sweet" or "wonderful".
There's always next request you can count on!!

Girls, I hope you're not intimidated to ask your guys to do something now.
You really don't have to worry when they say "well…"
As I told you, they just need time to think.
Don't frustrate yourself with thinking, "I can't ask my guy anything."
Depend on him!!