6th Issue @ Geisha Today "Not Noticing"

Doesn't it happen a lot that girls getting mad during the conversation with guys?
Guys, I'm sure you don't understand what went wrong…
And girls, you are mad 'cuz your guy doesn't understand you even though you gave him the sign!!

This happens reeeeeally a lot.
Let me show you the situation with an example.

" Let me have a break "
Girls and guys have different expression for telling they "need a break."
Let's see how this causes the problem.

Say you and your girl saw Starbucks on your way.
And your girl said, "Don't you wanna have a break?"
If you are the one suggesting, it’s gonna be, "Let's have a break" in stead.

Saw the diffrence?
Girls tend to express their feeling with questions, and us guys express..sure, directly.
So girls do understand what we're saying, of course!!
But us guys..we're having trouble here.

Girls, if you stick with other girls, you won't have problem
and will have your favorite cups soon.
But..that's unlikely to happen with guys.
Please don't ask guys when you're determined!!

Guys are simple. We just take your words as they are!!
So usually, we'd say, "Nuh, I don't need a break."

If this is the case,You are not communicating well as you think you are.

Guys don't understand that your questions are suggestions.
It's even harder to train us understanding what your suggestions are.
Not mentioning…having it as a habit.

Communication with other genres are more complicated than you think.
We all need to make an effort on that.

So girls, you can start from saying, "Let's have a break."
You don't need to care about our feelings, you know.
We are not so profond as..you are!!