16th Issue @ Geisha Today How Girls Apologize

Ayumi ： “I’m sorry...”
Yuji ： “It’s alright as you understood.”

...Girls seem to have no offence in apologizing.
They apologize easily.

How come they don’t feel any offence in apologizing?
Guys, we need to study their mentality!!
’Cuz usually you are missing the reason behind.

- Introduction
When guys apologize, we admit the fact we did something wrong.
If we break a promise, we say, “Sorry I broke the promise.”

But girls apologize for something else!!
I tell you, they have totally different mentality from us guys!!

- Girls care other's feeling and atmosphere
Girls apologize just by caring other’s feeling or the atmosphere in some cases.
If they break a promise, they say sorry
not because they break promise, but for making the atmosphere bad.

Yeah, guys, I know what you’re thinking and you’re right!!
Girls don’t care what they did wrong, and apologize just for making the atmosphere good!!
Almost always!!

Not fair, right? But it is...at least for girls...

- Girls are practical!!
Girls apologize for having made YOU angry.
Their purpose then, is to
a) recover the atmosphere or/and
b) make you calm.

When girls and guys have fight, it’s often getting escalated ‘cuz nobody apologizes.
It’s getting nowhere, then.

But thanks to girls’ feature of apologizing, we ARE getting somewhere!!
So guys, learn from your girls!!
It might not be fair to you, but it sure WORKS!!