17th Issue @ Geisha Today Sense of Happiness

“O, I feel so happy...”

Both you guys and girls sure had this feeling in your life, right?
But how many of you knew girls and guys have different sense of happiness?
If you know how it’s different, you know how to survive...uh, sorry,
how to get along with your mate.

- We’ll start from conclusion
Guys like to feel a great happiness in once.
But girls like to sense each small happiness in everyday life.
Guys, REMEMBER this, or you’ll get into trouble.

- Guy’s sense of happiness
If you refer to 4th Issue ("Let's Praise Them!!),
you know guys feel happy when you compliment?
This is important.
Guys need to feel happy as a result of some effort.
Like when they accomplish the tough projects they were on for past 6 months.
They’re genuinely excited.
Think of that!! 6 months!!
They sure like to take time for feeling happy!!
Sound stupid?
But this IS when they, we, feel happy.

Guys like to feel a great happiness in once.

No wonder most of engineers are male.
You can’t be an engineer if you don’t find it worth taking time before achieving something...

- Girl’s sense of happiness
I had a great Ceyron tea this morning!!
My boyfriend cooked for me!!
I found a dress of my kind!!

Girls sure have lots of sources for happiness.
Really lots, and not huge ones, either.
They enjoy everything they do.
Shopping, tea time, diners...

Girls like to sense each small happiness in everyday life.

- Hasn’t it occurred to you？
Misa ： “ You don’t care for me anymore!!”
Nobuyuki ： “I AM caring you!! That’s why I work so hard everyday!!”
"And I did buy you a present on our anniversary.”

Did you realize this argument is based on the different sense of happiness
between girls and guys?
Guys think girls are happy after giving one big present.
But girls feel they couldn’t find small happiness for so long after the big present.

Guys, don’t be swept away...
You’ve given your best, right?
Working hard everyday, celebrating your anniversary...

But there’s one truth.
Partners need to feel happy if you wanna keep the relationship.

So, what do we have to do?
Easy question!!
You need to buy flowers, rub your girl’s shoulders, take them to dinners...
That’s all.
You just need to do these once in a while.
And your girl will act totally different to you.

- Treat them big for guys
So it’s your turn, girls.
What do you need to do for us, guys?
Treat us big!!

We guys like to have great happiness!!
So we won’t forget it if you celebrate big when we accomplish long-term projects!!
Remember, do it BIG.
And as we’re guys, we won’t need to be cared for long afterwords...

- In the end
Guys like to feel a great happiness in once.
But girls like to sense each small happiness in everyday life.
This is a big difference.
Let’s remember this, and find happiness in the relationship!!